How to give positive reinforcement and how to respond to students breaking the rules.
As a preschool teacher, it sometimes feels like rules and procedures are the only thing I teach these kids! I always spend the first month of the school year explaining and practicing this and then also reintroduce it when I receive new students in my class (which happens often, because of parents’ projects finishing in Korea and they need to go to the next country or back home). Every single day I talk about the rules in class and point to posters on how to behave properly in a classroom and school. But how do I do it and is it effective?
I had a lot of trial and errors (believe me!) and it is really an ongoing process due to the multiple personalities you get every year. However, it helps to have a plan or thinking process on how you would deal with certain situations.
Positive reinforcement: Consequences should be both positive and negative (Marzano 2007:131). Sometimes teachers forget that positive reinforcement is really that much (if not more) effective than negative reinforcement. As Marzano (2007:131) also suggests, teachers should establish the rules and the procedures at the beginning of the school year and encourage student participation while doing it. That way, they will understand the rules better, because they helped making it.
When I observe a student following the rules in my class, I will choose to do one of the following:
My sticker chart Verbal/ non-verbal acknowledgement- Tangible recognition
- Involve parent/guardian
It seems easy, but this is a selective process and I need to be careful what I choose to do when. I use verbal and non-verbal acknowledgement the most in my classroom: “Good job!”, “Perfect!”, “Way to go!” or thumb-up, nod, smile, clapping hands and high fives.
For tangible recognition I use a sticker chart. When they reach the “pearl” (20 stickers) they get to choose a reward from different toys I bought (play dough, key chains, pencils etc).
My school is using communication books to keep a good flow of communication with parents/ guardians. I would use this to write an extra comment on how well a student did something this week. This I would only do once a week (if applicable), otherwise you let parents get their hopes up and when a negative behavior is shown and you let them know, they are very surprize and gets upset easily.
Here is a link to my flowchart of my decision making process for positive reinforcement.
Example:
- A student played in the maths learning center and as I was walking around and observing the students, I saw that she arranged the numbers from low to high all by herself. I went to her and told her “Wow, did you do that all by yourself?”. She nods her head with a proud face. I replied with a high five and said “Well done, Linda!”. When she tidied up the activity, another student went to that center and tried to do it by himself, in order to get the same response from me. (He did and I gave him a similar response).
- One rule in my class is to be kind to others. This is a very broad rule, but at the beginning of the school year, my students and I talked about it and looked for examples on how to do that. This week, we were focusing on this rule and (to prevent snatching toys) we focused on asking to play with a friend before just sitting down and starting to take their toys. It was time for free play (just before lunch time) and I saw a student wanted to play with her friends, but hesitated to go there. I quickly got her attention and pointed to the poster “Ask before taking” and she went over to ask if she could play with them. They responded “Okay, you can have this one” and they continued to play together without any bickering. After a few minutes, I went to them and told them how proud I were of the three of them. Getting the whole class’s attention, I rewarded each of them 2 sticker stars and explained to the whole class why. This had a great effect on the rest of the class and I could really see some of them trying to follow their example.
- To keep with the example in number 2, I wrote a note in their communication books how well they played together that day and that they received 2 stars for it. The next day, the parents wrote back how proud they are of them and thanked me in return. Parents, really appreciate this kind of communication. They also learn from teachers and try the same strategies at home, which helps me as well.
Responding to rule-breakers
Honestly, this has always been a very difficult task for me. Every student is different and learn in different ways and it is the teacher’s job to know which strategy will work with which student and still keep a basic plan of how to handle negative behavior in your class. One thing that makes it easier is to get to know the students as fast as possible. That is why I do not do much academic work with the students the first 3 weeks, but interact and play with them to see what they are like in different situations.
The students know that they have 2 chances to correct their behavior, because the 3rd time is a consequence:
- First time: I get down on the student’s eye level and talk to him/her about their behavior and why it is wrong. I usually ask them to point to which rule they broke. This shows me that they understand the rules or not and I also get a chance to reinforce these rules. I do most of the talking here.
- Second time: the student did not listen and I tell him/ her that they only have one more chance and then it means there will be a consequence. Let the student tell you why it was bad behavior.
The self-reflection
page the student
fills outAn example of a thinking
corner to self-reflect.Third time: I tell them calmly that I did warn them about their behavior and they did not listen. Then I put them on the time-out chair for 3 minutes (because most of them are 3 years old). Use a timer if possible so that the student can know how long 3 minutes actually is. When that time is finished, I ask them again what did they do wrong and which rule did they break. They have to tell me why it is wrong and then promise (usually I do a pinky promise) that they will try not to do it again.
If the student continues to show this behavior, I have a self-reflection corner where they will fill out a page on rules and emotions. At the back there are a comment section for the teacher. I will react the same as the time-out procedure explained in number 3, but I will tell the student to think about what he/ she has done. For ADHD students, you could let them listen to calm music, to control their hyperactive behavior. I will then send this paper home to the parents.
If the negative behavior persists, I will contact the parents and fill out a behavioral checklist to go through with the parents. We will then discuss the behaviors and also strategies I will try in the classroom and possible strategies the parents could try at home.
Here is a link to my flowchart of my decision making process for responding to negative behavior.
Examples
A student was snatching the toys from others a few times.
- I took him to the side and asked him if he snatched toys from other students. He admitted it and I asked him how he thinks the other students feel when he does that. He said “said and angry”. I reminded him of the rule (Be kind and ask before taking). I told him that this is his first warning.
- He snatched a toy again and I took him to the side again and asked if he snatched again. He admitted it and I told him that we already talked about this. I asked him to tell me the 2 rules he broke (he pointed to the posters) and then I told him that it is the second warning and that next time he would sit time-out. He understood and went to play again.
- The third time he snatched a toy I took him calmly to the time-out chair and said he will sit there for 3 minutes and he should think about what he did wrong. He did not sit still properly, so I set the timer 2 times before he sat down properly for 3 minutes. After that we talked and he told me exactly what he did wrong and which rules he broke. I said that his friends does not like it when he does that and that he should rather ask them to play first, because then they understand his actions better. He agreed and I did not have further problems with him again.
I did not say it is easy!
Helping kids to follow rules and procedures is hard and sometimes I feel like kicking and screaming myself, but the most effective rule to live by as a teacher (especially preschool) is STAY CALM! I cannot stress this enough! The kids enjoy it when teachers get angry and scream; if I think back of my one high school teacher who completely lost it in class...even I gave a little chuckle. To help you stay calm are specific procedures you would follow if a student showed good or bad behavior. So, go make your own flowchart and see what works for your class this year and remember:
Teach your kids how to think for themselves and guide them to prepare them for the real world!
References
Marzano, R. J. (2007). The art and science of teaching: a comprehensive framework for effective instruction. Alexandria, VA: ASCD. Retrieved Oct. 27, 2016, from https://s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com/platform-user-content/prod-copy/get_help_resources/activity_resources/module4/The_Art_and_Science_of_Teaching.pdf